Okay, remember that rant I had about high school drama...probably not, it wasn't that great of a rant...but yeah, it's only a few posts down, go refresh your memory if you forgot it.
So I figured out why that bothers me, off and on relationships. I'm almost positive that the off and on couple in my life has used the "I love you" phrase. It just bothers me that that phrase can be used and then thrown away and reused on someone else. Giving up on a relationship when things get bad isn't love. Love is working through things when hard times come. "Love is like oxygen, love is a many splendid thing, all you need is love." Love is great, but it also requires a lot of effort, and so it just bothers me when I see people use the "I love you" phrase (yeah that's a dumb way to refer to it) when they don't honestly mean it. It makes me scared about the actual usage of that phrase. Love is something that doesn't die, so I get annoyed when people say that and then aren't willing to work. Saying those three words leads to work on both sides, and so I dunno, be careful about using that phrase. At least be careful around me, it's a serious business.
There are exceptions of course, but I dunno, that was just a continuation of the last rant I guess, and maybe I'm completely off base. Just some ideas.
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